I feel like when we have a child, our child will be forgot about, when Ryan comes to see us. Like right now, we get Ryan every other week. I feel like when we have our child, it will be old news when Ryan is around. When Ryan gets older and hits school age, I would assume we would get him for summer, winter, spring type breaks. And because our child will be with us 24/7, will he or she just be there, cause we will be so wrapped up in Ryan. Or does it come natural to know that both children are there?
Not speaking from experience here, but I think that it will be natural to know that both of your children are there. The same as it would be to add a new baby to any family. Include Ryan in activities with the new child so that he won't feel left out and can actually bond with the baby too!
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